Sunday, November 09, 2008

Postsecret...

...feels beautiful today. Happy Sunday. Squeeze someone you love.

4 comments:

Hugo Fuchs said...

Some good truths in there. Any of them yours?

Kid Sis said...

No, I've never sent one in. I tell my secrets here.

I loved the marathon one. I saw a marathon in Venice, and I've felt really lonely since I've been back, so it touched me. Loved the one about never being more poor or in love after 13 years. That's beautiful.

And then the old with wrinkles to show how much you've made me happy and the postcard with You Have Made Me Feel Beautiful.

Incredibly touching. I don't think men understand how much power they have to make their woman glow and feel happy. Or how devastating it feels when they choose not to anymore.

I don't know. I'm a mess since I've been back. I'm too alone with my thoughts and my choices.

Hugo Fuchs said...

I agree with you on the one with you on 13 years. Something about people not understanding that there must not only be lust, nor even lust and love, but a deeper commitment to the relationship to get through the rougher times. Lust implies a sexual compatibility. If you can't talk openly about what turns you on and off, then that will always be a weak point. Love has to be from both people, and if it is really love, while you may find you are incompatible for a relationship, you still will have love for them even after it is over. As for commitment. That's probably the hard part for people. It's easy in the beginning when everything is exciting and new, but when the day to day life sets in, most people will run for something exciting again, rather than putting in the commitment. Bah, I'm getting all rambly. Happy 13th Anniversery to whomever it is in the world.

Kid Sis said...

Oh, I suffered through TOO many relationships with friendly guys i had no attraction to. NEVER AGAIN. The sex is absolutely soul-deadening.